Recently I have received an email from one reader About Love were posed about the situation below:
" Mr Teddy, if I can make a teddy mr nk nk overcome articles about any organization satirical mind ble us. sy sy nk honestly say there are people crying ble sy said sarcastically. lg lebih2 before my dsindir organization rmai.sy mhon bntuannya ye.
sarcastically; or mocking. I believe we've all been through that situation, is not it?
Again during our childhood have always played mocked ready to use the name of mother father again. And if that can create extreme to have. Of course it was, ready to name grandfather fathers all out.
But attitudes like mocking it did not end in childhood only.
When in adolescence or adulthood, we prefer to use the term 'material to shoulder'. Sometimes when I remember to tu material world. Right for people to be sitting up tu material.
Ejeken such as grease, fat, debab, keremping, board, piece, jonggang, and cleft palate are among the words that people use. If our heart is not strong, indeed shed her tears. Legitimate and cry when being ridiculed in front of people.
So how do I want to solve this kind of situation? When people make fun of you, what would you do?
If you ask me, it's easy.
1. Ignore it, do not know
if you are ridiculed or insinuated person, ignore what people ridicule that. No need to be entertained. Let alone what he wanted to say. In fact he was more like if you where ridiculed. So better you ignore and do not know when he said that you this and that.
2. Believe in yourself
What he was talking about was not necessarily correct. If he says you are fat, well , what if you are obese? Fat, fat already existing je obese people who become artists. Ready femes again. Fat, fat already existing je married to the beautiful people. Ready to be a cute child again. So do not you want to feel inferior to the words of people. They actually jealous of your advantages. You need to be sure that you have your own privileges. Use the privileges and advantages that exist in your best.
3. shame him back
if you can follow my first two tips above, I believe you must dare to counter behind her. Although this third tips slightly evil, but once in a while what's wrong with you? (ahem!) Take this opportunity to embarrass him back. If you have a big point, point out that. But be sure to point you want to use it exactly the best point. For him snap!
Mocking ridicule is actually more of a psychological war. In any war, there must be a strategy. If you feel very sad not to be going to follow my three tips above, you just use the first tips that; Ignore it, do not know.
It tips from me. You also how?
There is not any way to resolve the tips when people make fun of us? If there are, willing-sudikanlah share with us in the comments section.
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